This Is How It Became Normal

Why Tolerance Turns Abuse Invisible

Nothing dramatic happened.
No clear line was crossed.
And yet, something that should have been unacceptable became routine.

This book examines how harmful systems don’t arrive through force — they arrive through accommodation. Small exceptions. Reasonable compromises. Quiet tolerance that slowly reshapes the moral landscape.

This Is How It Became Normal looks at how people adapt to conditions they would once have resisted, and how acceptance can function as protection for abuse, corruption, and erosion — without anyone explicitly approving it.

No villains.
No sudden collapse.
Just gradual normalization.

This book is about how “getting used to it” becomes the most powerful force in the room.